There is a local Singapore joke that states that we are a very
Christian country – we were run by the Father, the Son and the Holy Goh. This
is a reference to our first Prime Minister, Mr. Lee Kuan Yew, his son and our
current Prime Minister, Mr. Lee Hsien Loong and the Holy Goh is our second
Prime Minister, Mr. Goh Chok Tong.
This joke was most relevant in the period between 2004 and
2011, when our current Prime Minister ruled alongside his father as the “Minister
Mentor,” and his immediate successor as “Senior Minister.” The “Holy Trinity”
of Singapore politics seemed to work until the 2011 election when a public that
had been facing rising costs started to question why our government’s job
creating abilities seemed limited to the top. The Father has since died and the
Holy Goh announced his retirement from politics. With these two events, one
might say that the appropriate Christian analogy to describe our political scene
can be seen through Netflix series – Lucifer, which shows that the Devil was
merely the first being to have “Daddy Issues.”
I’m not suggesting that our Prime Minister is “devil like”
in his behavior but like the character of Lucifer from Netflix, he’s struggled
to deal with his father’s legacy. While one has to credit the first Mr. Lee for
doing many things right, he made one key mistake, which was to allow himself to
be turned into God. Instead of fading away after his retirement in 1991, the
elder Mr. Lee plonked himself into the cabinet of his successor, Mr. Goh Chok
Tong as senior minister and more worryingly in the cabinet of his son, as “Minister-Mentor,”
which sent the clear message to the world that ministers in Singapore needed to
b mentored. The late Mr. Lee used to make it a point to say, “I’m no longer in
charge,” which the rest of us understood to mean, that he was very much in
charge.
The inability to let go, has unfortunately remained beyond
the grave. Although it’s been five years since the elder Mr. Lee passed on, the
living Mr. Lee has failed to live beyond his father’s legacy. Policies and
tactics that worked well in the 1960s are repeated with the hope that they will
have the same results. One only has to look at the continuation of defamation
suites and attempts to silence bloggers with libel laws.
Unfortunately, Mr. Lee’s inability to let go, even from
beyond the grave has set a sad example for the rest of the nation’s leaders. Somehow,
everyone in a position of power felt that they only had value of they never let
go.
In many ways’ leadership is similar to parenting. A good
leader needs to know when to be there and when not be there. Like a parent, a leader
needs to prepare his or her people to be able to function and even thrive
without them.
It’s like with children, you look after them by feeding and
clothing them but you also need to train them to survive and eventually you
have to let them succeed or fail on their own merits. As I often find myself
saying to my kid – “What happens to you if I drop dead?” She says I should drop
cursing myself but being aware of my own mortality focuses my mind on the fact
that I have a responsibility to the kid to ensure that she has the ability to
live and even thrive when I’m not around.
My former boss, Mr. PN Balji, founding editor of the Today Newspaper
took great pride in the fact that the paper turned a profit after his tenure as
CEO. His argument was that he had seen the paper through its stage of development
and positioned it in a place where it could operate at a profit.
I think of bosses in the SME sector who have the habit of
reminding employees that they would be “nothing” without the boss. Employers
are as a rule of thumb inclined to use the tactic of “without me you would be ….”as
a means of getting employees to do more for the same.
However, if one looks at the situation from a parental point
of view, reminding someone that they’d be nothing without you is a failure of
leadership. It implies that you failed in your ultimate duty as leader to train
your people to the point where they could survive without you.
I think of my own parenting experiences and my ultimate line
with my kid is “what happens to you if I drop dead?” Her usual reply is that I’m
not allowed to curse myself. However, I find that reminding myself of my
mortality helps reminding me that I have a duty to my kid to ensure that she
can survive and thrive without me.
Lee Kuan Yew did many things right. However, he failed in
this crucial respect. He kept telling Singaporeans that they needed him and leaders
trained in his current mold to survive and prosper. When a parent says that
this type of thing to a grown-up child, it’s a sign of failed parenting. Likewise
when a leader of a nation says that, it’s a sign of failed leadership.
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