I have to admit that I am not great with languages, even though my social circle at university believed that you were not really educated if you could only communicate in one language and speaking English and something else didn’t count as being bilingual. The only language that operates completely in, is English with German coming a distant second (I speak it well enough to be understood and I can read and write in German but a very basic level.) I can, if push comes to shove, get by in conversational Cantonese (it’s the language I used with my paternal grandma) and Mandarin (thanks to Donald Trump and Brexit, I realized that having some capability of Mandarin would be sensible). However, I am not multilingual and when compared to the guys I was closest with at university, I am a lout.
So, to cover the fact that I am uneducated lout who is
only operational in English, I developed something of a means of covering this
inadequacy – I learnt key words in many languages. So, whilst I don’t speak
anything much other than English, I know how to pepper a conversation with many
phrases from different languages, thus sounding more intelligent that I
actually am.
Interestingly enough, this “party gag” of mine seems
to work exceedingly well in Singapore, which is officially proud of educating a
“bilingual population.” I remember attending a Saudi National Day function and dropping
the various Arabic expressions (mainly the ones relating to God). The Saudi’s
seemed to appreciate the fact that I was using what little I knew of their
language in the right context but more importantly, I actually received an
email from a young lady who worked at the Ministry of Foreign Affairs gushing
over my command of the Arabic language.
This dropping of “foreign” words into the conversation
took a particularly interesting turn tonight at a networking function I
attended. Ran into an Indian lawyer who works for an international law firm. Although
I don’t speak Hindi, I watch enough Bollywood movies to pick up a few words and
so I proceeded to use what I had picked up from Bollywood cinema on this chap.
Managed to break the ice. Then, he proceeded to do one better by admitting that
although he’s ethnic Indian, he’s actually a citizen of Hong Kong and it turns
out that his “other languages” are Cantonese and Mandarin.
What both of us
concluded was the fact that using a language other than your own is a great opener.
I think of a speaker at my lower sixth current affairs who mentioned that
people become more receptive towards you when they see that you are trying to
reach out to them on their terms. I’ve always kept that in mind and although
nearly all my negotiations in life are in English, I try, from time to time to
say something in another language. It gives the other side the impression that
I do understand them.
I’ve found this
especially true in two particular scenarios. The first comes from my days in
the Bistrot when European customers came in and I could greet them in German, French
or Italian. I like to think that this made me stand out as an Asian boy who realises
that White People are actually more than a single group only capable of speaking
English and I was rewarded with customers who spent a lot of money with me.
The second area
comes when I deal with foreign workers in my day job. These guys are usually in
a pickle by the time they see me. Dropping that odd word or two in Bengali or
Tamil helps give the impression that I am prepared to try to understand them.
There is a caveat
to this and that is that only works when it comes to a language that nobody
expects you to speak. My new friend had a similar life experience growing up.
Everyone expects him to speak Hindi. Nobody expects him to speak Cantonese or
Mandarin. The same has been true for me. Nobody expects me to know a European
language other than English. Nobody expects me to know anything of Arabic or
Hindi. Everyone expects me to know Mandarin or, much to my Mum’s annoyance,
everyone in Singapore thinks my natural state is Hokkien (minus the usual curse
words).
Still, that’s
no reason not to try and make the effort to communicate in something other than
what you’re used to. Linguistic chauvinism has to be the stupidest things
around since cigarette smugglers voted to leave the block that made their trade
legal. I think of all the idiots yelling “SPEAK ENGLISH – you’re in……” with a
sense of pity because it’s a sign that your mind is limited and that is definitely
not something to be proud of.
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