Back in the
days of my first marriage, everyone wanted me to become a teacher. My parents
felt that I had an “academic” personality rather than a commercial personality.
My then wife and her family kept drilling in the fact that teaching was an “iron
rice-bowl,” and then there were people told me that teaching was great because
teachers finished work by 12 noon and instead of being stuck with two weeks
paid leave like everyone else, teachers had school holidays.
I’m reminded of
this because this is not the reality of teaching as a career. Let’s start with
the working hours. It’s true that the official work day ends at around 12 noon
but it also starts at seven in the morning, which means that the official
working day is around six-hours, which is nearly the same as any office job.
That is before you have factored in things like extra-curricular activities,
committee meetings and let’s not forget the marking. When you add up all these
things, the working day of a teacher is pretty darn long.
As for that
great perk of teaching – holidays – some bureaucrats in the Ministry of Education
who probably never went near a school since they left, decided that teachers
needed to do more and so, more often than not, teachers get called back to do
all sorts of things that make bureaucrats behind desk happy. It even reached
stage where one of my uncles who was a teacher at the Institute of
Technological Education (ITE) found that he had to apply for the standard two
weeks of leave like the private sector because holidays for teachers was
essentially redundant.
It goes without
saying that my teaching career was short lived. I took an $800 a month pay cut
to return to the private sector. My resentment towards sitting at a desk
started when I was faced with the very prospect of having to sit in committee meetings.
One of the worst memories was Valentines Day, where the unmarried head of
department decided to hold the rest of us, who happened to be married, should
stay back for a meeting, which only took five hours. The only person who was let
off this marathon meeting was the only other unmarried person in the English
department.
I bring up this
rant about my inglorious days in the school system because it reflects something
many simply don’t see when it comes to jobs that are off the beaten path. For
those of us in corporate jobs, we tend to look at anyone who isn’t in a job
like hours as having it easy. We think of teachers as having lots of free time.
We think of construction workers as having it easy because they don’t face
office pressures. Most worryingly we look at entrepreneurs and the
self-employed and we get the idea that these guys have it good because they don’t
work standard hours and somehow end up richer than us, average joes.
Success is very
attractive. Who doesn’t want to be successful? Whenever we see someone with the
signs of success (the right car, the right home etc), we become caught up in
the good side of their lives.
One of the most
prominent examples of our attraction to success was best seen in the 80s and
90s, when boxing was dominated by “Iron Mike Tyson.” Mr. Tyson was the dominant
fighter of his generation. He was so dominant in the early part of his career
that he had effectively won before setting foot in the ring because he
terrified his opponents. One of the most memorable fights was against Michael Spinks,
which was lasted all of 93 seconds. For that fight, Mr. Tyson bagged some US$20
million.
Couldn’t
believe that anyone could earn that much for 93 seconds. Then, my uncle (the
one who recently retired from ITE) made the point that the average boxer has to
train two hours a day more than what the average person works.
That stuck with
me and although Mr. Tyson has since retired from boxing, I thought it was worth
looking at the way he trained. Thanks to YouTube, I found two videos which talk
about the way he trained. To say that it is beyond belief is an understatement.
The man woke up at 4am everyday to go for a three to four mile run every day.
He did something like 500 push ups a day. I struggle to get 50 done every other
day.
One of the more interesting videos on the way Mr. Tyson trained can be found in the link below. Note the expression of the guy’s face after going through the calisthenics portion of the day and that’s just a single day. Mr. Tyson trained like that daily.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7NOzRshvQzE
Getting up and making yourself train like that requires iron determination and focus. I think about the way I have to push myself to get through my four-minute morning work out or how 5 BX in the army was a challenge. Whatever I went through was nothing compared to what Mr. Tyson went through every day.
Sure, he had
the hot chicks, great mansions and cars and at one point over US$300 million.
That was the good part that everyone saw. We got excited by the way he could
demolish people in a matter of seconds and earn millions.
Nobody saw the
training and the hard work and the type of training he had to go through. Let’s
also not forget that for every Mike Tyson, there many more going through this
type of training who will never earn a percentage of what he made and many
probably end up with severe brain damage.
What is true of
top-level boxers is also true of entrepreneurs. You may not have to sit in a
cubicle for eight-hours a day but you actually have to work very hard just to
stay afloat. People won’t see that and should you fail (which is more likely
than not), you’ll get a lot of people, including friends and family, take joy
in telling you that you made stupid choices. Just like it takes a special something
in boxer to get up after he’s taken a beating, an entrepreneur needs to know how
to get up from taking a beating.
So, just
because someone doesn’t go through the same things you do, it doesn’t mean that
they have it easy. If anything, they could be going through things you would
never want to go through. Always be sympathetic to people struggling to get by.
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