One of the things
about coming from a country that has national service is that you have a sure-fire
way of knowing that you’re turning into an old git. That is sign is when you
meet up with your best mates and you grumble about how easy the kids have it in
national service. The common refrain is “It wasn’t like that back then.” In the
artillery it’s especially noticeable. In my time, the old gunners would talk about
how they really had to dig and get the round into the chamber (the lightest round
is 19kg) unlike the whipper snappers like us who had a “flick rammer” which the
job for us. Now, my contemporaries talk about how “gun drill” was actually a physical
drill and not the “push button” stuff that today’s gunners get involved in.
I bring this
topic up because I met with one of my best mates over the Easter weekend and somehow,
we ended up talking about how our respective kid just don’t get the hardships
that we went through. Then in the midst of this session, I realised that my
parents probably did the same thing, talking about how I had it easy when compared
to them.
A former client
of mine, who has become a venture capitalist made the point that when
technology has reached a stage where people today don’t need to do things that
we did in the past. Old people will tell you that they work out eight
multiplied by eight in their heads unlike the kids who need calculators.
However, the question is, why do people need to memorise things and do
complicated sums in their head when they have everything in super computer at fits
into their palms?
In a way, we,
the aging folks need to understand that today’s issues are not yesterday’s
issues. Sure, our kids may not have been through the things we did but that’s
not to say that they don’t have their issues which are unique to their
generation.
Having said
that, where I do question the younger generation is on their expectations. Talk
to enough young graduates about their expectations and you will get the
impression that they’re expecting to be in the vice-president’s desk once they
graduate.
This is most
visible in the religious sphere. You get our youth being drawn to churches who
sell what I call “McGod” where joining the church becomes a sure way to get
into a glorious place called heaven. My ex-wife’s pastor had a way of seeing
miracles in the shape of the car his congregation gave him. To be fair, this isn’t
exactly limited to Christians. Talk to enough Buddhist and they’ll be sure to
tell you about the master who accumulated so much merit that he could float in
the air and do all sorts of magical things.
I’m not
knocking wanting to find peace and spirituality. What I am knocking is the idea
that peace and salvation can be found by joining a club with its membership fees.
Spirituality and salvation come from pretty miserable places.
Let’s look at
the basic fact that we commemorate “Good Friday,” before we have “Easter Sunday.”
Thanks to Mel Gibson, we got to see the Bible made live in the Passion of
Christ. Crucifixion is not a word but a brutal form of death. The man we know
as “Jesus Christ” was turned into nothing more than a lump of flesh before he
was even nailed to the cross (the idea of crucifixion being you suffocate to
death).
It’s only after
he was treated like a piece of meat and then killed that he was able to resurrect
and get the glory of the divine:
Too many people
get caught up with the idea of the “glory” bit. Too few people understand that
he could only get the “Divine Glory” by going through the suffering.
This isn’t
restricted to Jesus Christ. The person that we know as the Buddha wasn’t born
as the Buddha. He had to go through that process of discovery before he found enlightenment.
Mohammed wasn’t born a prophet. He only started taking dictation from the
angels after his 40th birthday.
So, the fact is
that the great religious teachers of humanity had to go through some form of
challenge before they got the glory of the divine. Unfortunately, too many religious
organisations teach this basic fact.
Nobody grows in
a comfort zone. Why should I up my game when I automatically win? However, when
you face someone who has a good chance of turning you into mincemeat, things
suddenly change. You become forced to up your game. If you study organisations,
you’ll realise that those who never face challenge end up killing themselves.
It’s as simple
as this – if Jesus could through the misery and suffering of the crucifixion before
obtaining the glory of the resurrection, why can’t we go through the discomfort
of change in order to emerge stronger?
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